Nothing in this world is as it seems. No one can understand the things that churn around in an others mind. Sometimes their thoughts separate them from other people. I do not profess to understand or sympathize with those that connive, deceive, steal, cheat, manipulate, abuse or lie as part of their day to day loathsome existence. I do however have feelings of empathy for those that are their victims. My Mother used to say that a force like Karma does exist and it goes by many names. It is in place to pay back those that do not behave in a moral, ethical or humane manner. Those that have been unkind or unjust to others do get their just deserts in this world. I believe that "Karma" is simply the God of my understanding making sure that those that need his help get it eventually despite the bad apples in this world.
If these people don't want "Karma" to make things difficult for them then they do the next right thing in every corner of their lives. This means that a grown man does not hold a gun to a woman's head, inflict pain on her, take money that isn't his for an accident he did not have, take a home from her for which she paid in full, or stress her out through unsolicited mind games and intimidation. Nor does he or his parents use the system to take away her civil, federal and parental rights.
My daughter has had such a man in her life for more than 10 years. It means that her social worker and the police officer that were called upon to help Elizabeth go by the law not the word of Pam Stiver or her son Matthew Stiver. I believe that the law in this country is not being followed; but is being misused whenever possible by such people. The laws are particularly being misrepresented by those who are supposed to uphold it throughout all the justice and social systems.
In my daughter's case this would mean that people that she is kind to don't take advantage of her but pay her back that which was loaned to them. They would do every thing they could to help her get all three of her children back. Those that at any time have said they loved her show that love by treating her with dignity and respect all the time; not just when it suits them. Those that profess they love her don't leave her out of gatherings just because their partner has a complaint about her. A person that has loved or loves her would make it clear to all others at a gathering that she is to be treated with respect and dignity.
Anyone who says that they believe that real love and understanding is the basis of a good moral, ethical code would strive to treat everyone with dignity, respect and kindness. People need to understand that what they do here on earth follows them after they leave this world. And as is often said; "Pay back is a Bitch". It means that justice comes to the people that have never harmed a person in their lives but have tried to help the underdog like my daughter Elizabeth.
I do not profess to be a perfect person; but I do try to do the very best I can for those I love now. What I want to know is why doesn't her father do the best he can for both of his children? Doesn't he know that your only legacy is your children and their children and so forth generation after generation? I do know one thing. Glen Edward, I know you understand that just rewards, quite often; are not necessarily something one desires.
Now if there is a good lawyer out there that believes in making the justice system work for everyone; just as much as they believe it is important for them to get their retainer, would you please get in touch with me here in Ontario, Canada at [email protected]
Wee Few Words of Dylan the Dog
I am so happy that the weather has turned to Spring finally. I am getting a grooming next week. I shall be able to move with out the excess nails on my feet. I look forward to smelling all the flowers. Ruth shall probably want me to wear my sweater but if it means getting out and about that will be terrific!
Have fun on the sunny days and contemplate them on the rainy ones my fellow canines.