I know that this is true; as it is happening to someone who is very close and dear to me. People in both of her former spouse's families 'know' people and have money to burn. As a result, they have been able to separate her from her children. The girls all want to be with their mother; but because these people have been allowed to be judge and jury all on their own, this little family is not together. Here in Canada, people can get away with being deceivers, can coach children to say the wrong things, know corrupt people or can corrupt those on the police force, in the justice system, and in the Children's Aide Society. Money can arrange just about anything to happen.
These people have taken her children away from her without a thought for what is moral and fair to a mother and her girls. They have succeeded in taking the girls' childhood away from them with their selfishness, greed, and immoral actions. Because of the courts decision, she has to travel extensively to visit her children and the monies she got taken by one of the spouses from her settlement has been taken back from her by the government. I suspect it has been given to him, so in essence he has taken her twice. The only thing that I can do is pray that the wrong these people have committed is found out soon. I would like to see the children with the only one that truly loves them once again.
I am a retired social worker. To be honest there is a lot of rule bending, judgmental attitudes, corruption and corner cutting in a lot of the agencies both private and governmental in Canada . I will hasten to say that there are workers and agencies that are hard working and honest. They want to see people happy in this society. But there are many of those who use and abuse the system in order to get more money, to boost their self seeking egos, or to get their own selfish ideas or needs fulfilled. The system is flawed. Unfortunately until people become moral and honest human beings right across the board, we shall always have this problem in social agencies. I just wish the problem was not so close to home.
The Wee Few Thoughts of Dylan the Dog
I am just a dog; but my opinion is that the puppies should not be taken away from their mama until it is time according to Mother Nature. No one should be allowed to interrupt the natural flow of motherhood. I guess that goes for human children, kittens, and other animals too. A child needs their Mom. They also need consistency and honest people in their lives. Thank goodness for the sake of all young children, puppies, and kittens; there are a few good human beings in this world.